1. #1 by Anonymous on April 30, 2012 - 2:18 PM

    you made the right choice checking the phone… its a digital age, you gotta do what you gotta do and knowledge is power

    • #2 by One Gay at a Time on April 30, 2012 - 2:47 PM

      Yea… I have no regrets. He doesn’t know I looked at his phone. He thinks I caught him in the act at some point.

  2. #3 by THE SOCIAL REACTION on April 30, 2012 - 8:06 PM

    Amazing. You got my heart pumped like no other. I hope you and M.E. the best on whatever you two make of it…!

  3. #5 by superjaaho on April 30, 2012 - 8:39 PM

    Call me crazy, but I don’t agree with you checking his phone! And you think he broke YOUR trust?? I think you should’ve asked him straight out if you had any concerns. If you expect upfront and honest, you need to be upfront and honest.

    • #6 by One Gay at a Time on April 30, 2012 - 9:23 PM

      You’re right. I betrayed his trust. Do I think it was right I checked his phone? No. Do I regret it this time? No. I’d have done far worse damage with my imagination.

  4. #7 by Chewie on July 27, 2012 - 1:46 AM

    I have a question. If there was that icon showing that he was having that many messages, wasn’t that a better sign to show that he hadn’t got to go on grindr to check on those messages?

    • #8 by One Gay at a Time on July 27, 2012 - 11:16 AM

      Agreed, it may seem like a better sign since it shows he wasn’t checking the messages, but it’s a blatant disrespect not to turn off the app when in my home.

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