1. #1 by Zohan on March 1, 2012 - 11:14 AM

    For someone who is frequently on the hunt…. like you are, having an opportunity to sleep around and let go of that opportunity is, in my opinion quite tough. By no means, I am judging you however I personally know how hard it is to control yourself when stuff like morning excitement happens and you just can’t let that happen.

    Keep writing.

    • #2 by One Gay at a Time on March 1, 2012 - 11:17 AM

      I have no regrets on the situation, but I learned I need to speak up earlier and make more of a stand for myself. Too often I worry about others instead of just doing what I want to do…

      • #3 by Zohan on March 1, 2012 - 11:21 AM

        I guess we become slave of our own habits of being nice to the people we dated/cared about once upon a time. Same happened to me, however I wasn’t that strong and I gave in to a steamy session. After three months of a hermit life, I needed to take my boys out for a swim. So I was weak. But I know what you mean when you say you have no regrets. I however had to deal with it for two weeks before my ex could understand it was just a one night thing, rather than something more.

  2. #4 by The Shit Collector on March 1, 2012 - 12:01 PM

    Is SF the long distance guy that you dated before Smile?

    • #5 by One Gay at a Time on March 1, 2012 - 12:02 PM

      There’s another guy in between there (N or Neighbor), but yes.

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